BINGO FUEL--> EMERGENCY FUEL.

Twice in my flying career I nearly ran my jet out of gas.

Both experiences were as painful as they were permanently instructional, and Lt Col Brugh helped me with both of them.

My second act of gas buffoonery was in a Strike Eagle, flying in Area 12 way out over the ocean in the Whiskey MOAs off of Cape Lookout, North Carolina - near where the 'Big Rock' deep sea tournament guys fish the Gulf Stream.  

I was pulling hard, and we were down low, at the floor, Afterburners blazing and burning a ton of gas for a full 10 seconds well after we heard the clear "BINGO FUEL" warning from Bitchin' Betty in the helmet telling us to go home.  

How Billy Mengers Taught Me Servant Leadership

As a brand-new 4th Classman at the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, I was a long way from home in November 1986.  I was 18 years old, barely 150 pounds, I was getting yelled at by upperclassmen morning, noon, and night, and my life was a profoundly unpleasant experience.

LEAF RUN November 2025


November 2025 West of Martinsville VA just north of the NC/VA line.
Videos Here:

Leadership Development Session with Jenn Giordano and the Nautical Advisory Group - 2025


Tremendous experience with my friend Jenn Giordano (SmartfulWorks) and the Nautical Advisory Group!

We discussed Leadership, The Art of the Debrief, and creating Radical Candor to build an organization.

but most importantly -  

We raised funds and awareness for an amazing local Raleigh support organization:  

Children's Flight of Hope

"ATD Best" Award for our PPD Team, Washington DC, May 2025

A proud day receiving this Learning & Development Team Award for our PPD TEAM
 

First jet ride 1988: Austin Texas

My first flight in a jet, July 1988 at Bergstrom AFB, Austin Texas

Cape Hatteras April 2025 - Easter OBX Run to Billy Mitchell Field

Looking Northwest at the Pamlico Sound
More Hatteras Flying Videos and Photos here:

"STOP THAT BALL!"

Mr. Sullivan was a Giant.  To me.

I'm convinced our team won the Goldsboro Boys Club Little League "World Series" in 1979 because Coach Sullivan taught me how to stop a ground ball from going between my legs.

Civil Air Patrol Annual Banquet - Greensboro NC April 2025


Had a great time as guest speaker with the NC Civil Air Patrol in Greensboro.  
I've never met a more selfless group of leaders and young adults.  
Fantastic multi-faceted CAP mission.

I cant hear you!

I looked up high at the giant T-Tail over me as I stepped off the big white bus and waited there on the tarmac by the Red Cross.  

Waiting for the medics to move their convalescent patients out the back door and up the ramp, the reality of transitioning my fighter-pilot mind from prepping to fly a sunrise Dawn Patrol mission over Afghanistan, to loading up, instead, on a Medevac C-17 bound for Germany at 10 in the morning hit me like an anvil.  I turned around quickly to see jets ripping through the cold air, a two-ship of our very own Chief StrikeEagles - getting airborne over the runway next to us and driving the point firmly home for me.  

It was January 21st 2008, I was leaving the war, and I was in shock.

Hurricane Helene Relief - By Air!

The best part of helping our Hurricane Helene victims was the chance to join with so many super volunteers at Statesville, Rutherfordton, and Ashe County airports.  

The volume of supplies sent in short notice before government authorities could arrive was just tremendous, and those who helped deliver it over the week after the traumatic event were truly joyful servants.  Such a fantastic experience!  Prayers for all those impacted by this powerful event.


OSH KOSH 2024

 OSH KOSH 2024 trip with Ben Davis and Bill Gideon


Walk the Walk!


"Teammates are always observing their leader, and as they do - they are constantly drawing their own conclusions about what the leader values based on the actions they see their leader living.  

Leaders, therefore, need to remain ever mindful of these perceptions and take charge of that narrative by taking the steps to actively demonstrate the values they care about for their teams."

                Jordan Kestenbaum

               My good friend at Disney Institute

Leadership? Or Management? You can wear BOTH hats...

Too often, these words are used interchangeably, or they are misunderstood with one regarded as superior to the other.  In truth, they're both different, and they are both essential for a team.  When supervising any group, a person needs to know when to lead, and when to manage, and how to know the difference:

MANAGEMENT: 


Optimization of those operations essential for function of the mission while minimizing disruptive change.



LEADERSHIP:


Inspiring the team to move from one place to another, by motivating essential and sometimes disruptive change required  for the successful execution of the mission.


A great supervisor knows when to wear either hat.  

How much can you empower a well-coordinated Team of Teams and stay successful?

We decentralized until it made us uncomfortable, and it was right there - on the brink of instability- that we found our sweet spot."

    General Stanley McCrystal

Sunrise At SunNFun. Lakeland Florida - April 2024




Joined up with my friend Bill.  Plane camping in Florida.

Sally from Kabul. November 2009 - March 2024

 


We said goodbye to my best friend today.  14.5 years old.  She has caught 10,000 frisbees for me....

An amazing, beautiful, majestic, athletic, empathetic friend.

Here's her story (from a post far below):

Sally's story

 Return to Three Capes Website

Servant Leadership

 

Put yourself at the bottom.  
It's a gift to be there.

Put your Team at the top.
Lift them up.  

Serve your Team.

Home from Sun n Fun March 2023 (Lakeland FL)


 From Bill Gideon's Cirrus at 7500' over central Florida.  
3.6 hour flight from Lakeland Florida to Raleigh NC
Sun N Fun videos here:

Leadership is a Gift

 


Leadership is a Gift.  It's given by those who follow.
But you have to be worthy of it.

- General Mark Welsh, US Air Force Academy 2011


OSH KOSH!

Great OSH KOSH fly in with Bill Gideon. 

Our V-35 Bonanza at RDU


1966 Beechcraft V-35 Bonanza N7883L
Raleigh-Durham Airport, North Carolina

The STEP

 The Step.

The one thing all aviators share, regardless of which airplane they fly, is the Step.  The Step is anticipates.  The Step transforms.  The Step is confident. And the Step can sometimes be a fearful, courageous move.  The Step is one of those few things that only aviators do.  The Step is the glorious space of time between which an aviator makes the decision to go out and fly - that point when he or she commits to leave the ground in the machine - and the moment the engine begins turning.  This short period is known as the Step, and every Aviator knows just what it means.

Afghanistan

With an Afghan elder near a runway northeast of Kandahar. We were working with him to use that runway to support a forward base with supplies so trucks didn’t have to risk driving on the treacherous highway from Kandahar. 

OSH KOSH

2-Ship of Taildraggers to OSH KOSH Wisconsin
With Bill Gideon and Ben Davis July 2021

Flag Day


Photo taken by and courtesy of my friend and former neighbor Beverly Church Wright at Plymouth Massachusetts. Thanks Beverly!

Towering Cumulus!

“OPEN JET.  GOT AN OPEN JET FOR AN OPS CHECK COMING UP IN THE NEXT 30”  

Lt Col Kaiser boomed at the 50th Flying Training 'Strikin Snakes' on the PA across the squadron. 
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50th Flying Training Squadron "Strikin Snakes" - Inactivated July 2nd 2025 
Columbus AFB Mississippi

Leadership is Industry Agnostic

Leadership is Industry Agnostic. 

Leadership is Change

Leadership is Action not Position

Leadership is Transformational not Transactional

Leadership is Service to The Team

Leadership is Emotion that Drives the Mission

Leadership Builds

Leadership Honors

Leadership is Grateful

Leadership is Visionary

Leadership is Selfless

Leadership Cares.

Lead or Manage?

"You manage things, you lead people."

(shared with me today by Vesela Dashkolova)

“If you don’t fund the State Dept, I have to buy more bullets” said General Mattis. #USGLC

As part of a US Global Leadership Coalition Group, we met today with staffs of Sen Thom Tillis, and also Representatives David Rouzer, Mark Walker, Patrick McHenry, and David Price (and others met with many more) to emphasize funding for diplomacy and global development programs, alongside defense, to keep us safer long term. 

 If you are a veteran, join us. MCC. USAID. USGLC. Most every state has a delegation. Veterans For Smart Power:https://lnkd.in/eukBbY7 

22 October 2019

Learning as a Way of Being


"Since turbulent conditions appear everywhere and pervade our lives in both time and space, learning in permanent whitewater conditions is and will continue to be a constant way of life for all of us.  There are no boundaries to learning.  Learning as a way of being is a natural mode of being that is more important than ever in a complex and unstable environment."