BINGO FUEL--> EMERGENCY FUEL.
Twice in my flying career I nearly ran my jet out of gas.
Both experiences were as painful as they were permanently instructional, and Lt Col Brugh helped me with both of them.
My second act of gas buffoonery was in a Strike Eagle, flying in Area 12 way out over the ocean in the Whiskey MOAs off of Cape Lookout, North Carolina - near where the 'Big Rock' deep sea tournament guys fish the Gulf Stream.
I was pulling hard, and we were down low, at the floor, Afterburners blazing and burning a ton of gas for a full 10 seconds well after we heard the clear "BINGO FUEL" warning from Bitchin' Betty in the helmet telling us to go home.
How Billy Mengers Taught Me Servant Leadership
As a brand-new 4th Classman at the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, I was a long way from home in November 1986. I was 18 years old, barely 150 pounds, I was getting yelled at by upperclassmen morning, noon, and night, and my life was a profoundly unpleasant experience.
Leadership Development Session with Jenn Giordano and the Nautical Advisory Group - 2025
We discussed Leadership, The Art of the Debrief, and creating Radical Candor to build an organization.
but most importantly -
We raised funds and awareness for an amazing local Raleigh support organization:
"STOP THAT BALL!"

Civil Air Patrol Annual Banquet - Greensboro NC April 2025
I cant hear you!
I looked up high at the giant T-Tail over me as I stepped off the big white bus and waited there on the tarmac by the Red Cross.
Waiting for the medics to move their convalescent patients out the back door and up the ramp, the reality of transitioning my fighter-pilot mind from prepping to fly a sunrise Dawn Patrol mission over Afghanistan, to loading up, instead, on a Medevac C-17 bound for Germany at 10 in the morning hit me like an anvil. I turned around quickly to see jets ripping through the cold air, a two-ship of our very own Chief StrikeEagles - getting airborne over the runway next to us and driving the point firmly home for me.

Hurricane Helene Relief - By Air!
The best part of helping our Hurricane Helene victims was the chance to join with so many super volunteers at Statesville, Rutherfordton, and Ashe County airports.
The volume of supplies sent in short notice before government authorities could arrive was just tremendous, and those who helped deliver it over the week after the traumatic event were truly joyful servants. Such a fantastic experience! Prayers for all those impacted by this powerful event.
Walk the Walk!
"Teammates are always observing their leader, and as they do - they are constantly drawing their own conclusions about what the leader values based on the actions they see their leader living.
Leaders, therefore, need to remain ever mindful of these perceptions and take charge of that narrative by taking the steps to actively demonstrate the values they care about for their teams."
Jordan Kestenbaum
My good friend at Disney Institute
Leadership? Or Management? You can wear BOTH hats...
Too often, these words are used interchangeably, or they are misunderstood with one regarded as superior to the other. In truth, they're both different, and they are both essential for a team. When supervising any group, a person needs to know when to lead, and when to manage, and how to know the difference:
MANAGEMENT:
Optimization of those operations essential for function of the mission while minimizing disruptive change.
LEADERSHIP:
A great supervisor knows when to wear either hat.
How much can you empower a well-coordinated Team of Teams and stay successful?
We decentralized until it made us uncomfortable, and it was right there - on the brink of instability- that we found our sweet spot."
General Stanley McCrystal
Sunrise At SunNFun. Lakeland Florida - April 2024
Sally from Kabul. November 2009 - March 2024
We said goodbye to my best friend today. 14.5 years old. She has caught 10,000 frisbees for me....
An amazing, beautiful, majestic, athletic, empathetic friend.
Here's her story (from a post far below):
Sally's story
Servant Leadership
Home from Sun n Fun March 2023 (Lakeland FL)
Sun N Fun videos here:
Leadership is a Gift
The STEP
The Step.
The one thing all aviators share, regardless of which airplane they fly, is the Step. The Step is anticipates. The Step transforms. The Step is confident. And the Step can sometimes be a fearful, courageous move. The Step is one of those few things that only aviators do. The Step is the glorious space of time between which an aviator makes the decision to go out and fly - that point when he or she commits to leave the ground in the machine - and the moment the engine begins turning. This short period is known as the Step, and every Aviator knows just what it means.
Afghanistan
Flag Day
Photo taken by and courtesy of my friend and former neighbor Beverly Church Wright at Plymouth Massachusetts. Thanks Beverly!
“If you don’t fund the State Dept, I have to buy more bullets” said General Mattis. #USGLC
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Learning as a Way of Being
"Since turbulent conditions appear everywhere and pervade our lives in both time and space, learning in permanent whitewater conditions is and will continue to be a constant way of life for all of us. There are no boundaries to learning. Learning as a way of being is a natural mode of being that is more important than ever in a complex and unstable environment."



























